What Should I Know When Considering Cremation? Prepared by Nila Dimangondayao
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/Tabs /S Call the funeral director; Call the church office (585.271.6513); Call close friends or family who can provide personal support. Location that reflects the persons interests such as a park, a golf course, a lake, garden, beach, event center, theater, art gallery, church, or stadium. 26 0 obj Choosing funeral music, scriptures, prayers, and readings Organising transportation- for family and the deceased Organising flower arrangements Writing an obituary and submitting it to newspapers (If desired) Choosing a speaker for the eulogy Deciding on pallbearers Organising a wake or ceremony after the service (Location and catering) They only allow their own members and families to use them. /Type /Page The Dignity Memorial brand name is used to identify a network of licensed funeral, cremation and cemetery providers that include affiliates of Service Corporation International, 1929 Allen Parkway, Houston, Texas. /Contents 40 0 R 0000003535 00000 n
/Annots [73 0 R 74 0 R 75 0 R] /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Choose the type of disposition you'd like: Burial Cremation Green burial (eco-friendly) Support the grieving family by surrounding them with caring friends, co-workers, and neighbors. Our expert guidance can make your life a little easier during this time. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 9 0 obj
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The national median cost for a funeral with burial in 2021 is $7,848, according to the NFDA. %PDF-1.4 >> /Parent 2 0 R A celebration of life service allows family and friends a chance to honor a loved one who has died in a way that is as unique as the life of the deceased. endobj
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After death, a pastor of First will meet But we're here to say this: an easy, cheaper path is not always better one. >> Father's name. This easy, step-by-step guide will help you manage the process during this trying time. /Tabs /S /Type /Page A funeral planning meeting, sometimes called a funeral arrangement conference, is the time for us to plan a tribute fitting of the individual. endobj Instagram. Funeral Planning Checklist . endobj
/TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Notify relatives and friends. /Annots [] /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Coordinate transportation for the casket. This service is found in UMH. Talk slowly and be sensitive of their loss. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 28 0 obj << granted by Pastoral Care Inc. Changing Services from Traditional to Contemporary, Effective Communication To Deal With Change, Funeral, Wedding, Equipment Use Checklist, How to Download the Pastoral Care Phone App, Use of Building Agreement with Outside Entities, 31 Days of Prayer for the Pastor, Church, & Others, What To Do When Someone Leaves Your Church, Pornography and Narcissistic Personalities, Ecclesiastical Guidelines for Ministers Affected by Pornography, Crisis: Role of a Caregiver during a Crisis, Suggested Goals for a Successful Marriage. This Funeral Planning Worksheet will lead you through a variety of decisions. are not protected by an attorney-client privilege and are instead governed by our Privacy Policy. Any other use, such /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Tabs /S endobj
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/StructParents 0 Planning your funeral in advance can make a lot of sense financially. For either style of service you choose to hold . /Resources 31 0 R 8 0 obj
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endobj /Tabs /S /Annots [] /Resources 77 0 R Often times, the person in charge of making the funeral arrangements are grieving, and may not have a clear understanding of the wishes of their deceased loved one. If you want a funeral planner that can do the necessary work for you, ensure that you are focused on prioritizing what is essential for the funeral program. /Rotate 0 Choose an officiant to lead the service (e.g., religious leader, family member, friend). /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] New pastors often feel uncomfortable and unsure whether their words will bring comfort. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Letting your members use church facilities for special family events is one of the ways your Ask questions that help them recall the good memories. 1 0 obj
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Ask your parent if they've made prearrangements or have a funeral home preference. Get to know them before the service. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Rotate 0 Funeral checklist. located at the bottom of this page. Family member often are looking for answers or reasons why this has just happened, as Preparing and Delivering a Funeral Sermon Meet with the family. 8 0 obj
It is helpful to give each person a few minutes to ponder the question and then allow the group to bounce ideas off each other. endobj 1. Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information, Clothing, including undergarments (these items will be used to dress your loved one if you are planning a viewing or prefer special clothing for a cremation or casket burial), Eyeglasses and jewelry (these items may remain with your loved one or be removed and returned after the service), A recent photograph (for cosmetic purposes, if a viewing is planned), Military discharge papers (for a veteran, if applicable), Names and contact information for 6 to 8 pallbearers, if applicable, A collection of approximately 30 photos we can use to create an Everlasting Memorial digital archive and a multimedia scrapbook, Marital status and surviving spouses name, if applicable, Veterans discharge papers (DD-214), if applicable, Mothers full name, including maiden name, Highest level of education and occupation. /Tabs /S This complete funeral planning guide includes a checklist of the steps to take when a loved one dies. 0000005193 00000 n
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Before viewing, the following need to be made ready:
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Make sure sound system is on. It should be held in the church if at all possible and at a time when members of the congregation can be present. /Annots [] Full article can be viewed and printed with Word or PDF formats at the links <>
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/Tabs /S << /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] that person as much help as he or she wants or needs. You may want to include pictures of the deceased, mementos, flowers or chairs for those who will deliver messages. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Rotate 0 Funeral Planning Worksheet When planning your funeral or a funeral for a loved one, there are many choices to make. 1 0 obj
endobj /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] It's often seen as easier not to have a memorial service or funeral, and it's certainly seen as a less expensive alternative. Theres a lot to consider, and your funeral planning adviser will guide you every step of the way, assisting you with all the details of a memorial service or burial. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 0 0 0 h v =. As we've said, we've got the experience which could make planning a memorial service easier for you and your family. Review this checklist of questions to help you plan a funeral that fits your family member's wishes while you navigate the . 0000007018 00000 n
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Due to recent rulings on alternative lifestyles and marriages, many churches have chosen to not lease or allow outside parties to use their facilities or equipment. 0000008103 00000 n
Accommodating the public when they ask to use your church is not only a service but an outreach to the community. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Annots [68 0 R] endobj /StructParents 0 >> We believe reflecting on our mortality can help us lead more meaningful lives. By planning your service in advance you can design and specify the exact type of service you'd like, so that your friends and family celebrate you as you wish. Download the full guide below to begin funeral planning with confidence. Next, we walk you through how to plan a funeral and the questions to ask. /Parent 2 0 R 8 % . A A L h h h =. You need to treat it like any other large purchase. This worksheet may be used by: an individual making their advance plans known, or a family planning the funeral of a loved one nearing death or recently deceased. Capture stories. The form on the next page will help your church accomplish that. endstream
/Parent 2 0 R endobj The law requires bodies that are not embalmed be buried sooner than bodies that are embalmed. /Annots [] The daunting prospect of planning a funeral for a loved one at one of the most difficult times in your life breaks down into a simple checklist taking you through everything from selecting someone to officiate the memorial to choosing readings and considering transportation for the mourners. /ProcSet [/PDF /Text /ImageB /ImageC /ImageI] members and their relatives or friends form a special bond with your church. %
&. After the service has concluded, the funeral home directors will either open the casket or take it out to the foyer or cemetery. ?. This particular type of funeral checklist is created to ensure that payments for the suppliers are completed or to be reminded of other obligations and activities that are necessary to be done once the funeral program ends. A short message at the cemetery is customary. >> 29 0 obj A SERVICE OF DEATH AND RESURRECTION. lives to Christ.
Copyright 2022 Pastoral Care Inc. All Rights Reserved. being there when family members need you the most. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Cake offers its users do-it-yourself online forms to complete their own wills and
Once your loved one has passed, check filing cabinets or the safety deposit box to locate prearrangement paperwork. $ h0 0000008730 00000 n
That brings the total to about $10,000 for many funerals and memorial services. /Resources 67 0 R 0000035166 00000 n
/MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] The Pastor normally encourages you to consider the church. We're confident that, together, we can come up with the perfect memorial service event to suit . Tell them who you are in case they are not all familiar with you. x]O0+?)oB2:1QEkC4,MA;IMBIp/$/Y|?dpxgx20 /Contents 58 0 R From making arrangements for the final resting place to organizing a service, its sometimes a surprise just how many decisions there are to make after a loss. Funeral Planning Checklist Excellent. /Annots [] 0000067188 00000 n
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M f0. endobj Arrange transportation to and from the service for family members. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Sometimes the minister will ride in the hearse to the cemetery. /StructParents 4 But on top of these basic expenses, you will need to plan for the burial plot cost and casket price (or the urn cost if you choose cremation), a headstone, and flowers for the funeral or memorial service. 20 0 obj lead you through a variety of decisions. When will the rehearsal be? <>
/Tabs /S Step 2: Look for a Professional Funeral Form Template. 3 ` c. h h h h h c. x. endobj If you want to prearrange your funeral, you can opt for funeral insurance through a funeral home, which sometimes offers a guarantee of their current prices. Check back with family members the days before the funeral as well as after the funeral. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Resources 57 0 R >> . Be sure to shake hands and give encouraging words with immediate family members. /Annots [] I s - 2 L U # hq hq hq 5hq hC29 hWF hC29 5 hWF 5 hC29 5 hn 5hn hn h CJ aJ h hWF h\- h\- h\- 5h\- ha. hn hG 5hG
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Create a free website to honor a loved one who has passed away. Move the deceased from one social status to another. endobj Facing some of those choices now will make the process less demanding for your loved ones later. {3}2sERc]2N4.UlAFf7a$B(*,\B'#/kJ%9xH"RAh)IZv`pQ/E0a-*Y!nf*w9)#&UXYf!r%j,YpJ*#,mMD)Ma556wXmLDr[qx}0|'p=# WL^WAQaP>ZPb^-.rIA#`Vx"4? /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] << /Contents 48 0 R Its easy to feel caught off-guard after losing a loved one. Allow them to share endobj
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Worship Director notifies funeral service participants of their responsibilities. Be sure you pronounce their name Yet they achieve those things in very different ways. After death, a Pastor of Resurrection will meet with family members and review . Put your wishes in a voice or video recording. Again, allow the Holy Spirit to guide you as you prepare for this All music to be performed or played during the memorial service must be approved by pastors and music director for appropriate content as part of a Christian memorial service on behalf of the deceased. >> /Resources 72 0 R A good funeral requires the sensitivity and comfort only a minister can provide. /Tabs /S hb```a````c`(`a@ PcCg8Lf&rq$ykIw@l(bIa33l
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NOTE: Due to recent rulings on alternative lifestyles and marriages, many churches have chosen to not lease or allow outside parties to use their facilities or equipment. /Parent 2 0 R Feel free to download, copy or edit this form to suit the needs of your church. Get Help Choose a funeral home Choose an officiant for the service Have a support person Ask family and friends to help with other tasks Consider funeral costs and accepting donations 2. /Annots [] They are searching for comfort. granted by Pastoral Care Inc. One way to personalize your message is to divide your message into topics: He/She wasA good mother/fatherA good providerA good ChristianA good cook, etc. >> << It allows people to grieve and honor that person. If there is an endobj /Parent 2 0 R Funeral pre-planning with final expense insurance is one of the most trusted ways to help your family with funeral costs. 3 0 obj When someone dies, there are many decisions to make: where to hold the funeral or memorial service, whether to have a traditional funeral or a modern celebration of life, whether traditional burial or cremation is more fitting, which funeral home to choose and so much more. /Creator (Canva) Use the following checklist to when meeting with your funeral director. (Note: Sometimes we know about flower delivery; other times we are not advised.) /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 0000119912 00000 n
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Determine what time family will arrive for visitation and services, ensure coordinator is onsite at those times
Notify custodian and impacted ministry leaders of funeral arrangements
Notify Alsip Police dept of planned funeral--708-385-6902
Easel/s or table provision for photo collage of deceased (if requested)
Boxes of tissue
Musicians: Soloist/s; pianist; worship team (if requested)
Ushers and parking attendants
Canned music during the viewing (if requested)
AV technician (if canned music is requested, must be present to play music; must be present during the memorial service).
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